DEAR DEIDRE: MY Spanish wife has moved back to her home country and taken the kids with her.
We went there on holiday to visit her family at Christmas 2019, but during the trip we had a row and she announced that she didn’t want to be with me any more.
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Then she dropped a bombshell.
She said she and the children wouldn’t ever be coming back to the UK.
We had talked about moving to Spain in the future, but hadn’t made the arrangements.
I had to return home for my job and then Covid struck.
I’m 40 and she’s 38, and we’ve been married for ten years.
We have two boys aged eight and six, and she has changed their passports so I can’t bring them back home.
I love my kids and would do anything for them.
The whole situation is breaking my heart.
DEIDRE SAYS: Hard as it is, you must try to talk to your wife calmly and say you want to sort things out for the sake of the children.
My support pack When Parents Fall Out explains more about children’s feelings and needs in this situation.
You can get advice through Families Need Fathers (fnf.org.uk), who will understand the issues here.
Check the website or give them a call on 0300 0300 363.
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