DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend thinks I was lying about being a virgin because I didn’t bleed the first time we had intercourse.
I’m 16 and he’s 18, and we’ve been seeing each other for three months.
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He said I couldn’t have been a virgin because I wasn’t shy when we had sex, but that’s because I felt comfortable with him.
Now he says I’m lying and must have had sex with other guys.
I feel horrible and don’t know what to say or do to make him believe me.
DEIDRE SAYS: This is your boyfriend’s problem, not yours.
He’s insecure and has preconceived ideas about how a woman’s body works.
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